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Baffled me

December 17, 2019 by Don Kuhl

One area of my aging experience continues to baffle me.

My life has always been dominated by a sense of urgency. I’ve never been one to slow down and smell the petunias. It’s like I’m always in a race, often uncertain where the finish line is located.

With this attitude, I recognize I’ve missed many moments of serenity and peacefulness. On the other hand, I’ve accomplished a bunch of stuff, some of it worthy and meaningful, but most of it of little significance to me or others. 

As I age, I notice far fewer reasons for me to be in the fast lane. In fact, I think my behavior frustrates some of my friends, family and colleagues. They want me to slow down. I get clues a few of them would appreciate if I just parked.

By all indications, this is a time for me to reassess how I invest my remaining time. Why not kick back, slowly enjoy all the wondrous things around me? After all, I just read a book on mindfulness, although I rushed through the final, repetitious chapters.

So, I’m baffled. Should I attempt to make a shift in my style of behavior, or should I continue to play like my speed makes a difference?

Can you give me some advice?

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