It’s amazing how much I’ve been gifted in my life. Although I did not come from a wealthy family, my mom and dad made sure I had everything a young boy needed – and often special gifts that were unexpected and made me feel super-duper. At school – grade school, high school …
I thought my desire to win at games would diminish with age. It hasn’t. It may have gotten worse – until today. My wife, Sherry, and I play games of gin rummy to 1,000 points. We face off every day and keep accumulating scores on a big yellow sheet as the week clicks along. …
I don’t want you to get the impression I sneak around following people all day, but once in a while I do enjoy watching folks’ movements when they don’t know I’m tracking them. Today was one of those days. I was floating around Costco, checking out free food samples. Sherry …
Have you ever experienced a special moment when you said or wrote something really extraordinary, something gloriously creative, and you thought the world must learn of your wisdom? Maybe you are blessed with the humility and intelligence to recognize the probability of this …
In a wonderful new book, “Elderhood,” Louise Aronson, MD, delves into aging that’s “neither nightmare nor utopian fantasy – a vision full of joy, wonder, frustration, outrage and hope…” I was captured from the first chapter, titled “Life,” through the final page. It’s not …
My watch tells me what time it is – and who I am. The watch is an ACQUA Indiglo, and it belonged to my father, Vern. He wore it for many years as a salesperson crossing Midwestern states in search of high-rising grain elevators needing aeration systems. It was with great …
I get tangled up over the silliest of circumstances. I’m sure you would handle this one better than I did – but how? Here’s the scenario: I’m leaving a Kohl’s department store, and two women are about to enter. I graciously open the door for them. As they are midway through …
Well into my seventies, I wish I could say I’ve become a patient guy. But little things still bother me, and I can get in a bad mood over the smallest matters. However, I’ve discovered the perfect spot to practice being a better person. It’s my local Starbucks. Throngs of …
Since age 50, I’ve lived in some nice houses. But houses don’t matter much. It’s what goes on inside. When I was a junior in college, I lived in the Broom ’n Spoon. Built years before as a cheap office for used-car salesmen, the structure sat in the middle of a parking lot. …
It ticks me off when mental health experts use the bubble bath as an example of a reward or special treat. What’s more, this message is often directed exclusively to women. My bubble bath is an essential part of a full day. It’s not a luxury or a reward. I do not need to …